We can offer you traditional Chinese medicine to stimulate you sex activity

According to Chinese Medicine, a balanced sexual life is necessary for health. Sexuality is linked with the strength of the Kidney system (shen) and in particular "essence". One is born with a certain amount of essence which can be maintained and developed throughout one抯 life by proper lifestyle, emotional health and Qi Gong exercises. Essence may then be likened to the DNA aspects of a person.
Essence is said to be lost during ejaculation for men and either orgasm or childbirth for women. According to some texts, essence can be maintained and even strengthened by intercourse with a loving partner and a conscious mind. Conversely, masturbation, sex while angry and sex with strangers is strongly depleting. "Improper sex", such as sex while drunk, can be detrimental to the resulting child.

There is little said about what amount of sexual activity is appropriate for women. For men there are definite guidelines as to frequency. For a healthy man from age 14 through 20, intercourse 2 times a day is appropriate. After this the numbers drop (naturally) to once every other day (age 30-40), every 3 days (age 40-50), every 5 days (age 50-60), every ten days (age 60-70) and once month for those past 70. Obviously, these depend on the health of the man.

Interestingly, Chinese Medicine says that men抯 cycles run in 8 years and women抯 run in 7抯. It is no wonder then that age 40 is such a turning point for men and 49 (the beginning of menopause) is similarly important for women.